Anthrax is known for their armed and dangerous sound and a big part of that was guitarist Dan Spitz.After a Christmas Eve of merriment Spitz, the father of two autistic kids, is facing allegations of wrapping his hands around his wife Candi's throat and choking her and  leaving visible bruises.

Spitz said "she assaulted him first." So, I guess that makes it ok to use the "she swung first" alibi to assault  a woman?

No! It just makes you a DOUCHE!